You never know how your married life is really going to go until it’s too late.
Even if you have been dating somebody for 10 years and you get along great, you have no idea how that’s going to change when marriage is involved. This is what I realized a while ago when it came to my wife and I. Apparently, she is a lot more uppity and unreasonable than I ever had realized in our decade of dating each other. As soon as that ring was on her finger she really let loose with her paranoia and delusions. To this day, she blames me for all sorts of garbage… Such as my son having asthma. Every few weeks my son has a problem with his respiratory health that requires medical intervention to pump high quality air into his lungs. Of course, this is a genetic problem more than anything. However, my wife is convinced that my son’s asthma goes back to our central heating and cooling system several years ago. Back then, we were living in an apartment complex with a low quality heating and cooling system. Because we rented, there wasn’t much that I could do about the energy inefficient heating and cooling equipment or the patchy air temperature fluctuations that we experienced. I tried to ask the landlord about upgrading our furnace and air conditioning unit but he would never respond to my phone calls. Eventually, we moved out of that apartment and got an HVAC unit of our own. Now, our heating and cooling equipment is much better. That hasn’t stopped my wife from blaming my son’s asthma on his exposure to low quality indoor air during infancy. She insisted that I could have broken down the landlord store to make him repair our heating and cooling equipment. This woman.
